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When peers understand what makes your child different they
are less likely to bully them. |
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When peers understand about a disability
they are more likely to help. |
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When peers understand that your child’s
actions or inactions are not by choice, they are more likely
to accept them they way that they are. |
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When peers look past the outside of what
they see in your child, they are more likely to become their
friend. |
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I'd like to share a
little about what difference autism
awareness can make. In the 4 years that my son Austin
has been in his elementary school, we have worked
with his
teachers and others in creating autism awareness programs
for the entire school. We are fortunate that we are in
a school that is proactive and very supportive of all
kids with and without disabilities.
My son is moderately affected
by autism, which means he has some language, but generally
not real conversational
skills, he doesn’t interact in a socially typical
manner, and has behaviors that include, screaming and
hitting. With all of this factored in, it goes without
saying that he doesn’t have a typical childhood
that encompasses having friends that invite him over
or many that we invite over. But at school, he is accepted.
He is greeted by his peers; they sit with him at lunch,
play with him on the playground and go out of their way
to engage him in small talk. They are tolerant of his
behaviors and understanding when he doesn’t return
their attempts to engage him in conversation. |
This past year my son was turning 10. I
thought about his birthday party and who to invite. In the
past we have always invited other kids from the community
who have autism also (with the exception of one very special
friend; Josh), but this year his aide at school suggested
we invite his “typical” peers from school. I
was pretty nervous thinking that most wouldn’t show,
but went along with the suggestion.
We mailed invites to 11 of his friends
and buddies from school and in the invitation I included
a list of things that Austin likes (it can be hard to buy
for children with autism).
I can’t ell you how surprised I was
when his birthday came and all 11 kids showed up for the
party. What surprised me even more was that 9 out of the
11 kids brought Austin his favorite thing….an elephant.
I had totally misjudged the kids, they new him much better
than I gave them credit for and they had taken the time to
choose a present that they knew he would like the most. The
parents went out of their way to thank me for inviting them
and to let me know how often their kids talk about Austin
and how much they like him. |
If that isn’t enough reason to start an awareness program
at school, I don’t know what is!
Autism
Awareness…..where to start
Post facts about autism on large puzzle pieces around the school
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1 in 150 kids have autism |
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More boys than girls are born with autism |
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Autism is not Contagious |
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Autism is a disability that makes it hard
to talk to other kids |
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Having autism makes it hard to know how
to play with other kids |
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Some thing like lights and noises bother
kids with autism more than they might bother you |
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Everyone is different, being different is
not a bad thing, we are all different |
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Kids with autism look just like you and
I do |
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Kids with autism like to have friends they
just don’t know how to make them as easy as you do |
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Kids with autism have feelings just like
you and I do |
Post things that kids can do on large puzzle pieces around the
school
Post Names of Famous People with Autism
around the school
Famous People with
Autism
Matthew Laborteaux – "Albert Ingalls" (Little House on the
Prairie)
Crispin Glover – "George McFly" (Back to the Future)
Temple Grandin – Professor – Author – Architect
Thomas Jefferson
Albert Einstein
Jonathan Lerman – Artist
George Widener – Artist
Donna Williams – Author
Satoshi Tajiri - Creator of Pokémon
Bhumi Jensen - Thai prince
Stephen Wiltshire – Photographic memory Artist
* It is believed by many that Thomas Jefferson and Albert Einstein
had forms of autism
Famous People with Autism in the Family
Matthew
Laborteaux – Actor
- "Albert Ingalls" (Little House on the Prairie)
Crispin Glover – Actor – "George McFly" (Back to the
Future)
Sylvester Stallone’s son,
Dan Marino’s son
William Christopher‘s
Will Clark’s son
Doug Flutie’s son
Hermie Sadler’s daughter
Doug Flutie’s son
Ask the School Library to set books about
Autism out on display through April
Ask to read books about Autism to the classrooms
Suggested readings:
Taking Autism to School
Trevor Trevor
A is for Autism
I have autism…what’s that?
Adam's Alternative Sports Day: An Asperger Story
Of Mice and Aliens
Wishing on a Midnight Star
Andy and His Yellow Frisbee
Ian's Walk: A Story About Autism
Joey and Sam
My Brother Sammy
Please Don't Say Hello
Looking Out My Window – click
here